Time

As a personal and business coach I often hear (and I’ve heard myself on occasion) say “there just is not enough time”. With ever increasing workloads, multiple demands juggling relationships, work, raising children and/ or caring for aging parents it is a perspective that many feel today.

How about shaking this perspective and turning it upside down? Often how we look at things, leads to our choices and behaviors. Play along, and let’s completely change our perspective…For example, how wild would it be to believe “there’s so much time in a day.” You could have breakfast, lunch and dinner on 3 different continents. You could outline the book you’re going to write, start remodeling your office, and watch “Gone with the Wind,” before the sun even sets. Spend a day at work, and still have 16 hours left over. Or you could just think 10,000 different thoughts as you tool all over your town. Hey, the record for climbing Mt. Everest is under 9 hours, leaving 15 to nap.”
It can be as simple as “what you have” versus “what you don’t “. What is it you really want to do and to have in your life? Remember, Oprah and Bill Gates all have the same 24 hour days…

Coach Challenge:
Resist the temptation to use time or lack thereof as a catalyst for not taking the “bull by the horns”. Become aware of your “time wasters”, determine what you want and what you don’t and make conscious choices that make the most out of each of your 24 hour days.

“Time is more valuable than money. You can get more money, but you cannot get more time.” ~ Jim Rohn

Here’s to your success!

Colleen

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First Things First

First Things First!

As a personal and business coach I work with many clients that are struggling to do it all now!  Many of us occasionally drift “into the weeds” when facing situations and become overwhelmed in our efforts to create it, fix it, encourage it, coax it, or make it happen.  I hear the cry for clarity, focus, and balance from moms with great careers. I hear the same thing from business owners trying to juggle all the pieces of their business and spend quality time with their families. Managers and executives occasionally “fall into the weeds” as well, trying to learn new roles or reaching for that next promotion while trying to stay a step ahead in corporate America. The need for clarity, focus and balance is critical as well for aspiring entrepreneurs as they balance costs against revenues in a precarious start up endeavour.

Bryon Dyson former CEO of Coca-Cola says:  “We juggle 5 different balls: a health ball, a family ball, a friends ball, a work ball and a spirituality ball.  Four of the five are made out of crystal.  If we drop them, they’re going to shatter.  Only one ball is made out of rubber and bounces back; the work ball.”

I am not saying you should not give your best at your work, of course you should!  You don’t get to be a CEO without that priority.  What I am asking of each of you is simply to take stock. How do your priorities line up? Are you walking your talk when it comes to the amount of time you are allotting to each? Take the time to do the things that rebalance your life and get back on track.

It is all about doing First Things First.

Here’s to YOU!

Colleen

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Mirror Mirror on the Wall ­ – Putting the YOU in your personal self leadership

Ever feel excited to start something new only to find out it was harder or less interesting than you thought?  Did this make you feel overwhelmed or frustrated?  Did you ever quit or want to?

Ever feel unsure or a little (or a lot) fearful or unmotivated on certain tasks?

Ever get bored doing something and not put in as much effort and therefore not get the same level of results?

On the flip side, ever experience any of these situations and have them turn out fantastic?  Magnificent?  Better than you even expected?  Well of course you have!

Want to uncover what might be going on and how to manifest better outcomes and have more fun, build your skills, self-confidence and motivation quicker and faster?

So, let’s take a look at how to do just that.

First, we all go through a normal process when we take on a task.  The trick is recognizing where we are in the process in order to take accountability to “get exactly what we need when we need it” so we can move through the process quickly.

Phase 1: New task.  We are excited to do it; although we don’t know how.  (Think of a child getting their first bike.  They are excited to ride it but have no idea how to balance, pedal, steer and keep from falling).  What you need=lots of direction!

Phase 2: Learning the task.  We are developing a few skills but are still learning.  During this phase you likely could get frustrated, overwhelmed and may question why you are doing this task to begin with.  (Think of the child trying to ride their new bike and falling)  What you need=still lots of direction but also lots of support to motivate and build your confidence).  Reminder of “why” it is important you are doing this task.

Phase 3: Gaining skills and growing in confidence although still a bit unsure.  (Think of the child riding the bike pretty well.  Although they may become unsure riding on a different road, with different people or going faster) What you need: Very little direction but what you need is lots of support.  Someone to help facilitate and ask you how you think you can improve etc.  Someone to give you encouragement and remind you of your successes.

Phase 4: You are a rock star!  You have mastered the skills and you are an expert!  (Think of the child riding the bike saying “look mom no hands”.)  What you need=a challenge; a stretch assignment or an opportunity to mentor others.

Now you know the 4 basic phases we each experience and what you need most during each of these 4 phases.  If you get what you need most when you need it (in a timely manner) you will move through the 4 phases at record speed.  No one wants to get stuck and become overwhelmed and frustrated. No one sets out to quit.  We all want and can learn skills more quickly, build our self-confidence, become and stay motivated and become inspired experts.  This in turn will be less stressful and lead to greater success!

TIPS:

1. Determine if there are tasks you can delegate or you shouldn’t be doing at all.
2. On the tasks you will continue, assess which phase you are in on your most important tasks. (1, 2, 3 or 4)
3. Ask for what you need.  Reach out to your mentors/coaches, experts, boss, peer group etc.

If you would like additional support on assessing and leveraging these 4 phases; email me and I will be happy to help.

Here’s to YOU!

Colleen

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Oh the Themes! Common Themes to Women, Life and Business

Themes

Yesterday I had the great opportunity to speak to a wonderful group of women.  During the presentation I led each of them through an experiential activity in order to help them gain clarity and focus.  Once they gained clarity and focus they were even better able to make decisions, commitments and set goals.  Some of their goals, decisions and commitments were around aspects of their lives and for others they revolved specifically around their businesses.

Some common themes that arise when I work with women in groups or one on one with my private coaching clients is many are overwhelmed with everything that is on their plates or situations that have occurred.  Does this sound familiar to you too?  We all can feel overwhelmed at one time or another; however, we want that to be the exception and not the rule.  When we are overwhelmed we cannot have the focus and clarity to make sound decisions and furthermore it is much more difficult to take purposeful action and not be sidetracked by all the other “stuff”.

Another theme is mindset.  When one’s mindset is a “can do”; guess what happens…can do (and I did it) happens!  When one’s mindset is I can’t because; guess what happens…Can’t do (stagnation or not even trying happens).  Believe me I completely understand how challenging times are for many (I’ve been there myself) but what will help so much is getting first to the mindset of “What else can I do?”.  If there is a fictitious wall up in front of you holding you back from making strides in your business or in your life figure out creative ways to climb over that wall, go around that wall, or dig under that wall.  Reach out for support with friends, a partner or a coach.

It breaks my heart when I see or hear women believe that they “can’t”.  One of my goals is to help as many women as possible believe “they can” and help them succeed!

Believe it can be done. When you believe something can be done, really believe, your mind will find the ways to do it. Believing a solution paves the way to solution.
David Joseph Schwartz quotes

 

Colleen

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Seize the Day

Seize The DayWe have all heard the phrases “Seize the Day” or “Carpe Diem”.  These two phrases guide me.  How about you?  They help me take bold action in my business and in my life.  They also help me create the white space to take the “down time” so I can be with and enjoy my friends and family.

These phrases mean even more and take on an entirely new urgency when we or those we love are faced with a serious illness or worse.   

What is on my mind is that on May 27th, it will be 7 years since my husband Rory passed away from cancer.  He was just 39 years young.   Rory will never again get the chance to seize the day but each and every one of us still can. 

I continuously ask myself “What else can I do to seize the day?”  How can I connect and build relationships with more people today?  How can I grow my business further and boost my profits today?  How can I be healthier today?  How can I have more fun today?  How can I show my son my love today?  How can I encourage my son today?  How can I support a friend today?  How can I be the best partner/daughter/coach today?

What can you do today to seize the day in your life and / or in your business? 

Remember “If you catch yourself saying “Some Day” I will do this or experience that…Know that someday may or may not ever come. So ask yourself “What will I decide to do today in life/ in business?”

Make it great and make it happen.

Carpe Diem

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Authenticity & Profits

“In the long run, digging for truth has always proved not only more interesting but more profitable than digging for gold.”
-    George R. Harrison

Be you!  Be Authentic! Speak your Truth!  Stay true to your passions and your dreams!  Take the actions you know will reap profits in both your life and your business!

Early this morning I went to the gym took a terrific body flow class.  The class is a combination of Tai Chi, Pilates and Yoga.  Exercise is part of my commitment to greater health and well being.  At the end of glass our instructor pulled an intention card with one word on it “Authenticity”.  I thought ahhh…What a great blog topic and a topic so near and dear to me.

Be Authentic

Some days I step into my exercise and health commitment fully and others I slide a bit or a lot.   I am not perfect.  I’ll say that again…I am not perfect and I certainly do not wish to ever give the impression that I think I am or put that kind of pressure on myself!!

When I do slide, procrastinate or blow exercise off I do my best to get back on the horse and exercise so I can be healthier and have greater energy and strength.   I strive be at my absolute best (not perfect) so I can live a great life, be a good mom and have a successful business.  A big goal is to have a successful business that helps and supports other business women and entrepreneurs be successful by putting all the pieces of their lives and businesses together in not only strategic ways but in a most harmonious way.

No one is perfect, but we all can be authentic.   I declare not being perfect proudly because years ago I would have tried my best to be perfect.  It was exhausting, stressful and counterproductive.   What I am and what you can count on me being is authentic.  I am real (except for my hair highlights).   Sometimes there is dust on my baseboards.  Okay most times there is some dust on my baseboards.  Sometimes in my office I look around and notice that I am piling and not filing and have gotten a bit disorganized.  C’est la vie.  I’ll get to the baseboards and I’ll get even more organized when and how I choose.

Have you ever noticed when you are authentic it opens the door to new possibilities.  When you are authentic and tell people what you need you get better results.  When you are authentic in your communication with your customers, they respond.  When you are authentic and share not just what you are good at but where you have “skinned your knee” and made a mistake or have suffered a loss people respond in kind.

Where in your life and in your business do you want to show more authenticity?

Everything will line up perfectly when knowing and living the truth becomes more important than looking good.
- Alan Cohen

Here’s to you!

Colleen

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A “Rocking” Mindset

The question is “Are you Rocking your mindset or is your mindset Rocking you?

Quote:  “We all talk to ourselves. A major key to success exists in what we say to ourselves, which helps to shape our attitude and mindset.” ~Darren L. Johnson


Have you ever heard the phrase, “It is better to be in the driver’s seat than in the back seat?”    Most likely you have heard or have personally said some form of this phrase.    Rocking your mindset is like being in the driver’s seat.  Having your mindset Rock you is like being in the back seat.

Rocking your mindset equates to having empowering beliefs vs. limiting beliefs that will support you in taking bold and sometime giant steps stretching yourself to achieve something you have never had before.  Empowering beliefs consistently will keep you moving toward your goals especially when it feels hard or difficult.  It is all about the “can do”, and the “I will”.  If we have limiting beliefs our mindset can sabotage vs. support us.  Being in the back seat and allowing limiting beliefs in can sound like and be polluted with “I can’t, “I’ll fail if” etc.  Being in the driver seat and establishing your empowering beliefs will create a strong and rocking mindset that will help you be more successful, more profitable and live a richer life.

Here is an exercise you can do now if you know you could be more in the driver’s seat and Rock your Mindset.  This exercise can help you be more proactive vs. reactive.  Take a piece of paper and draw a line from the top center of the page to the bottom center separating the left and right sides of the paper.  On the left side write a heading that says “limiting beliefs” and on the right side write “empowering beliefs”.  Next, think about your goals, your fears (or limiting beliefs) and start writing down all of negative, limiting beliefs that come to your mind.  (You know…that record playing in your head that stops you from taking that next step in business or in your life.  It is the record that keeps you from playing a bigger game in your business or in your life.  Now just get all of it down on paper…keep writing until you run out and your mind is clear.  Next, for every limiting belief, get in the driver’s seat and write an empowering belief.  For example, limiting belief, I’ll never finish or publish the book I am writing or I am afraid my book won’t be good enough” to empowering belief “Of course I will finish my book and I have a plan in place to do just that.  Matter of fact I am scheduled to complete by 8/1/2011 and I know my book will be quality and well received.” Or another example “I really want to increase sales in my business but it is really hard.  The economy is making it impossible” to “I will increase my business by 10 percent in the six months because I have created new sales and marketing strategies and am taking daily action to ensure my success.  I have even learned the art of delegation and am spending my time on making sales vs. doing the busy work.”

Now it is your turn.  Complete this exercise and get in the driver’s seat to Rock your mindset.  Internalize your empowering beliefs and repeat them to yourself until they become ingrained and part of you.  An empowering mindset is a foundational component to your success and it also helps to build your confidence and happiness too!

Here’s to you!

Colleen

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Skippy or Jif? What do they have to do with making profits?



People are very open-minded about new things – as long as they’re exactly like the old ones.
Charles Kettering

Are you interested in making greater profits? What would greater profits allow you to do both professionally as well as personally?

Would greater profits give you greater freedom?  How about the opportunity to further expand your business or do more for your family?  Would it give you more resources to give back through philanthropy?

It is often said that money is not the most important thing (and I agree) however money does touch EVERYTHING in our lives.

Skippy and Jif.  What do they have to do with making greater profits?   Well, this is what dawned on me the other day and how it all came about.  I was making our grocery list and added peanut butter to the list.  Mark ended up doing the grocery shopping and came home with Jif.  Now I have nothing against Jif (and I do remember the commercial from childhood that stated “choosy mothers choose Jif) but you see I grew up in a household that only ate Skippy (creamy not chunky) and Mark grew up in a household that only ate Jif.  At first I was on “autopilot” and it went against my grain a bit to have this “alien” peanut butter in our pantry.  Then I realized that just because I’ve ALWAYS eaten Skippy doesn’t mean I can’t try Jif and who knows maybe I’ll like Jif as much or even better.  (Besides eating primarily vegan these days I don’t really eat peanut butter.)  None the less, old habits die hard.

Being open minded and going a step further being innovative are fundamental and critically important strategies that can launch your business to greater success and greater profits.

Insanity:  doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results. ~ Albert Einstein Quote

Here are some questions I ask myself and I would encourage you to ask yourself as well.

  1. Where in my business (and in my life too) have I’ve just gotten comfortable and am doing things a certain way because I’ve always done them that way.  (for example, Skippy vs. Jif or doing my marketing a certain way.)
  1. If I want to have greater profits what can I do differently?  For example, is there an investment or two to make in order to grow my business?  What are some new systems I could implement that would help me work smarter not harder so I can spend my time on the most important things?  What additions or changes do I want to make to my team so that I have a great support network and they are able to perform at their best?  What (new) products or services could I create, upgrade or communicate/market more effectively to provide greater value to my customers?  What is something truly unique to me, my brand, my business that I could catapult in a new and creative way?

So, the next time you catch yourself saying or thinking “I’ve always done it this way” ask yourself if it is an opportunity to have an open mind and a great opportunity to innovate?

Here is a link to the greatest 26 innovations in the past 20 years.  Enjoy!  http://howtosplitanatom.com/news/26-key-innovations-of-the-last-20-years/

Here is to your success and greater profits!

Colleen

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Accountability or Bust!

“Some favorite expressions of small children: “It’s not my fault. . .They made me do it. . . I forgot.”

Some favorite expressions of adults: “It’s not my job. . . No one told me. . .

It couldn’t be helped.”

True freedom begins and ends with personal accountability.”

- Dan Zadra

I am compelled to write this blog about accountability because it is a topic and in some cases a huge frustration that has been coming up with some of my clients, colleagues and friends.

“A personal choice to rise above one’s circumstances and demonstrate the ownership necessary for achieving key results.”  ~Partners In Leadership

As my clients work with me they are becoming more and more dialed in to their personal accountability to “do what they say they will do”, “to stretch and perhaps be uncomfortable” at times for the sake of  making significant progress and changes towards their desired results.   They know that making excuses or finger pointing is just a stalling or derailing technique.  They also know they are human and make mistakes (I know I sure do!) and are learning to catch themselves more and more quickly when they fall into the blame game.

My clients no longer have the “what ifs” or “someday” thinking because they are taking the actions now and are accountable to themselves.  In the process of my clients becoming more accountable they recognize more than ever when others around them are not being accountable.

As I listen to some of my colleagues and friends who work very hard they too are becoming exceedingly frustrated when others are not exhibiting accountability.  They hear excuses such as “it’s not my problem”, “just tell me what to do”, “I was confused”, “I didn’t know”, or “it was someone else’s fault” etc.  I am referring to situations that the individuals were trained and have proven they can do the job, they just are not.   The bottom line in these situations is that others do know how to do something; they just chose not to do it and to make excuses.  It is not a training opportunity but rather an accountability opportunity.

What are some signs or symptoms that you may have an accountability opportunity or problem?  You may find yourself doing aspects of their jobs for them or complaining to your spouse or peers or wanting to pull your hair out.  This results in stress (which may include literally making yourself sick), lost productivity, less than stellar results, lost time and potentially the death of your dreams.

So, what can be done?  How do we continue to be accountable to ourselves and others and how do we lead, help, support, encourage, and give feedback to others so they raise their level of accountability?

Suggestions:

  1. Personally model accountability and set an example.
  2. Ensure that all who work for you and with you clearly understand the expectations and goals.   Discuss the ramifications of not meeting behavioral expectations and/or goals.
  3. Check in to see if their beliefs about the expectations and goals are aligned with yours and your business.  If they are not, let them vent a bit and then create new experiences to help them understand the why behind the expectations and goals.  (Experiences create beliefs, beliefs lead to behaviors, and behaviors lead to results.  Only aligned beliefs will lead to desired behaviors and desired results.)  I could devote an entire article or session on this topic alone.
  4. Take action as outlined if behavioral expectations and goals are not met.
  5. Provide ongoing coaching and specific feedback as accountability behaviors are growing.
  6. Catch people doing things right and Celebrate!

Question:

In what ways would your business and your personal life improve if accountability was embraced and acted upon with integrity and purpose?

“It is not only what we do, but also what we do not do, for which we are accountable.” ~Moliere

Colleen Phillips

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Pieces To Profit: What does Determination & Tenacity have to do with it?

 

Let me tell you the secret that has led me to my goal: my strength lies solely in my tenacity
 Louis Pasteur quotes

 

Determination and tenacity play a big part in both our lives and businesses.   

Here is an example relating to life.  Every Saturday morning at 9:00am I spend an hour watching and cheering for my son at his weekly basketball game.   I look forward to seeing him run, jump, shoot, pass, play well with his team and get some beautiful and healthy color in his cheeks. 

Each week the basketball league coaches have a sportsmanship quality or behavior that is the focus of the week and at the end of each game the coaches award two players with a medal of achievement/recognition.  Some of this season’s qualities and behaviors have been respect, communication and teamwork.   These qualities are critically important in professional and personal success.   This past Saturday the focused quality was determination.  I was so proud of my son Ryan when he was asked what determination meant he stated, “determination is when you keep trying until your reach your goal.”   I love that the basketball coaches are instilling this in our children at a young age.  Although this is a quality and behavior we’ve discussed with Ryan at home it is great to hear it come from another source.  If at a young age a person can learn to be determined and tenacious they will have greater strength to handle adversity and challenges as they are presented throughout their entire lives. 

 

Here is a question for you to consider.  Where in your life are you being determined and tenacious?  Where do you know you are falling short and want to raise the bar?  Commit to one thing you can do today and going forward that will make a very positive difference.

On the business side, we all know businesses large and small will face endless changes that require determination/tenacity in order to preserve core values and purpose while adapting to a changing world.  As we work within business, either as a business owner or as an employee we are and will be called upon to be adaptable to change and be tenacious and determined to succeed while striving to be at our personal and professional best.

We are all familiar with Walt Disney and this is a great example of determination and tenacity in the business world.  Following is an excerpt from Jim Collins book “Good to Great”.  

 In 1923, an energetic twenty-one-year old animator moved from Kansas City to Los Angeles and tried to get a job in the movie business.  No film company would hire him, so he used his meager savings to rent a camera, set up a studio in his uncle’s garage, and begin making animated cartoons.  In 1934, Mr. Disney took the bold step, never before taken, to create successful full-length animated feature films, including Snow White, Pinocchio, fantasia, and Bambi.  In the 1950’s, Disney moved into television with the Mickey Mouse club.  Also in the 1950’s, Walt Disney paid a fateful visit to a number of amusement parks and came away disgusted, calling them “dirty, phony places, run by tough-looking people.  He decided that Disney could build something much better, perhaps even the best in the world, and the company launched a whole new business in theme parks, first with Disneyland and later with Walt Disney World and EPCOT Center.  Overtime, Disney theme parks have become a cornerstone experience for many families from all over the world. 

So, what can we learn Disney?  We know he could have quit when no film company would hire him.  He could have easily given up on his dream to be an animator in the movie business. He could have pursued a more conventional career.  Instead he had the determination and tenacity to use his savings and set up a studio in his uncle’s garage.  We know that when he visited the amusement parks and was disgusted he could have done absolutely nothing about it.  He had a vision and dream and knew he could create the best in the world amusement parks which he did.   

We are all faced with challenges such as corporate downsizing, a challenging economy, competition etc.  These are all true and real conditions, but they are outside of our control. It would be easy to say “I can’t because” citing any one of these. However, there is so much more that we can work with and can control.  How we handle that which is within our control and sphere of influence determines our degree of success. 

What are your business visions and dreams?  No kidding, what are they?  Write them down.  What will it require to bring your visions and dreams to life?   What will you need to start, stop or continue? 

We all have it in us to dig deep and be determined and tenacious.  Sure it will take work but in the end you can make your visions and dreams a reality.  So, let’s all get to work, make a plan and work the plan. 

Here’s to you and to your success!

Your Coach,

Colleen

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